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A challenge for all ages: Finding hope during the pandemic

South Florida Sun Sentinel - 9/24/2020

You can no longer hang out with friends at a coffee shop, spend the day at your condominium’s community pool, or volunteer at the local hospital. The weekly card game has been canceled, as have your family get-togethers.

These are challenges of navigating the new realities of the COVID-19 pandemic, and they can lead to feelings of isolation, loneliness, or fear and dread about what’s to come.

But even with all the stress and sadness, mental health experts believe you can stay hopeful during the COVID-19 pandemic.

Dr. Sandra Castillo, a Miami psychologist and board member of the Florida Mental Health Coalition, offers seven ways to take care of your mental health and stay optimistic.

Do a daily self-check. Take stock of your mental health each day and change up your routine as needed, “If you are feeling low, do something different to stay active and keep your mind sharp,” Castillo says. Read, go for a walk in the park or do a crossword puzzle -- the goal is to add something new to your routine that you enjoy.

Make sure to stay physically healthy. “There is a connection between mental health and physical health. If you want to have positive well-being, you do need to exercise,” Castillo said. She suggests going on morning walks to start your day with structure and fresh air. If you can’t leave home, or if you need to quarantine, stay active inside as much as you can with exercise videos on YouTube or a stretching routine.

Focus on what you have. “I have a lot of patients who keep gratitude journals,” Castillo explains. “When they focus on what they do have, it makes their day a little easier,” The Miami psychologist advises looking at the areas of your life you do have control over -- start the morning with a prayer or with positive affirmations and set the energy for the rest of the day. “I encourage people to look at life with the cup half full. It really makes a difference when you shift your negative thought process into a positive one. In difficult times like this, try to find the positive in what has happened.”

Dr. Sandy Castillo and Sun Sentinel health reporter Cindy Krischer Goodman will be discussing mental health during the pandemic during the South Florida Sun Sentinel’s PRIME Online Expo. The online virtual expo event taking place Oct. 3-23 will feature exhibitor booths offering special deals and prizes and timely content for adults 50 and older. Attendance is free but registration is required. To register visit https://www.primeexposf.com/","additional_properties":{"comments":[],"inline_comments":[]},"_id":"6HO62J4C5FGG3DSIISDFPUVPR4

Connect with friends and family. Right now people feel confined and often don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, Castillo says. Connecting to others, while social distancing, is critical to good mental health. Some people are FaceTiming with family and friends, others are doing Zoom parties with different groups of people or reaching out to old acquaintances on social media. “There are a lot of online programs covering different topics and different interests to keep you connected,” Castillo said.

Allow yourself to feel angry or resentful. No one is living their best life right now. Anger is a normal response, but it is what you do with the anger that affects your mental health. “This is a novel virus that completely has disrupted our lives and routines. It’s important to be aware of our anger cues and how we might be quicker to react, especially in a social setting,” she said. “It’s important to take accountability ... blame shifting doesn’t help.” Her advice: “Stay positive and stay informed.”

Live in the moment. There is positive anxiety that reminds us to wear our mask and engage in better self-hygiene. Then, there is negative anxiety because of uncertainty and the inability to plan ahead. Embrace the moment and just try to stay in the here and now, Castillo says. “Enjoy your families and people you have in your immediate surroundings and connect with them on a deeper level.”

Know the signs of more serious depression. People who suffer from depression tend to be withdrawn. They tend to isolate and not want to leave their rooms, They are sluggish, have problems with focus, engage in crying spells or experience excessive guilt. Castillo said. “It’s important to see how often is this happening and the intensity. If these things are happening in your family, get help because there is help out there.”

Cindy Goodman can be reached at cgoodman@sunsentinel.com or 954-304-5908 or Twitter @cindykgoodman

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